It is with profound sadness that we, the family of Ted Butcher, loving husband of Trudy, for 58 years, announce his passing on Wednesday, November 23, 2016 at the age of 79 years. Along with Trudy, Ted leaves to cherish his memory five children: Erika (Terry) Bartman and their children, Rachel (Lorne) Vossler and Brett (Dara) Bartman; Eva (Morris) Lukowich and their daughter, Zoë; Angie (Aaron) Konschuk and their children Zachary (Reanne Andersen) and Jenna Konschuk; Marty (Diane) Butcher and their daughters Ashleigh and Mia; Mandy Butcher (Ron Harris) and their daughter, Jillian. Ted is also survived by extended family in both England and Germany.
Born in Southampton, England, Ted was the youngest of 6 children. After his initial schooling in England, Ted worked as a lab technician and served in the Royal Air Force as a radio technician in West Germany. An intelligent man with a thirst for knowledge, Ted continued his education first at King Alfred’s College in Winchester, then at the University of Southampton and finally at the University of Calgary.
On November 1, 1958, Ted married Trudy Strehl, in Southampton, England, where his teaching career began. In 1961, Ted and Trudy and their two young daughters moved to Canada, where he continued teaching in Bindloss, Alberta, before moving to Medicine Hat in 1965. As a principal, Ted taught several years at St. Louis School and then at St. Michael’s School until his retirement in 1997. Throughout his career, this kind and generous man exemplified the highest levels of honesty, integrity and respect to students, parents and colleagues alike. Ted was a strong supporter of the ATA, serving as District Representative for five years. He was known as a fearless fighter, using diplomacy to advocate for the rights of all those with whom he worked, but especially for the right of every child to receive a quality public education.
Ted spent most summers working as a hail adjuster, relishing the serenity that came with driving the open highway as the sun came up. He enjoyed meeting and walking with many farmers through their fields. Ted’s talents were extensive: he had a beautiful singing voice, he played the piano and the saxophone and shared his love of music and art with his students and his family. Ted was an avid gardener and an amazing cook, affectionately known as the “Muffin Man” by his family. His knowledge of vehicles was so extensive that he was considered the family’s car expert and no purchase was made without getting his opinion first. Ted loved sports: he started each day with his “Morning Swim”. He cycled, coached soccer and hockey and enjoyed watching all sports, especially if his grandchildren were participating. Ted often used his witty humour in his detailed storytelling with his family. Ted had a passion for politics. He also liked to travel, taking several trips throughout Canada, England, Germany, and California, with New Zealand on his wish list.
Ted was a good friend and colleague and a caring Husband, Dad and Grandad. Ted adored his eight grandchildren and felt so blessed to be their Grandad.
Always “A Principal with Principles”, Ted leaves a legacy of love for his family and fellow man that will live on in the hearts of all who knew him. We will miss him dearly.
As Ted truly lived and believed:
“What we desire for ourselves, we wish for all.” (J.S. Woodsworth)
A Private Celebration of Ted’s life will be held on Wednesday, November 30, 2016. Those wishing to honour Ted’s memory are encouraged to make donations to the Medicine Hat Catholic Schools’ Education Foundation, 1251 - 1 Avenue S.W., Medicine Hat, Alberta, T1A 8B4.
Harold & Kathy Exner:
Nov 30, 2016 at 01:11 AM
Erika and family, Our sincerest sympathies to each of you as you mourn the passing of your Dad, Grandpa, and Great-Grandpa. I know your deep love and respect for him will bring a great feeling of loss, but pray that with time it will be a source of joy and comfort. It is a blessing to have loved and been loved so completely.
Katrina Randall:
Feb 18, 2017 at 12:02 AM
Dear Butcher Family,
I have been praying for you since I heard of Herr Butchers passing. Yes I said sherry. I was one of his many students at St.Michaels school. When he learned that I had attended Kindergarten in Germany, he always greeted me in German. Every Monday morning on the way to assembly he'd give me that warm smile and "guten morgen". I learned so much from him over the six years he served as my principal. He was gentle....and terrifying! Never did I ever want to be "In his office." I remember wondering why we would never use the intercom even though the school had one. I believe it was truly his personal touch to keep our small school feeling like a family. In grade six, I had the privilege to have him as a math teacher. I'm sure we learned multiplication, division and fractions, but my fondest memory is his story telling. He loved to share about his family. Mr. Butcher was proud of his wife and his five children. He also spoke of adventures of his childhood. I'm now grown with three children of my own, but fondly remember my years as an elementary student with much thanks to his leadership. All the love, and many blessings on your family.
Kay and Larry Bonneville and Family:
Dec 02, 2016 at 07:12 PM
Our family was profoundly saddened to hear about Ted's passing. We remember him fondly as a friend, neighbour, teacher, principal and colleague. Our sincere sympathies to Trudy, Erica, Eva, Angie, Martin, Mandy and your families. May his memories become a treasured part of your futures. All the best.
Carol and John Seaman:
Dec 02, 2016 at 04:12 AM
Hi Erika and Terry, I was so sad to hear that your Dad, aka Mr. Butcher, had died. I can understand why your family had a private ceremony, there is no place big enough for all of us whom your Dad touched in his own great way, to attend to pay our condolences and great stories. I would like to share with you in regards to what your Dad did for me in Grade six when he was my teacher/principal. My parents were very protective of us. I had won a writing contest (can't remember exactly what the story was I wrote) and I told Mr. Butcher that I wouldn't be able to attend the next level as it was after school hours. Well, your Dad wasn't going to accept my explanation. He drove me home during the school day and sat and had a wine or whiskey with my parents. He then asked if I could go. He told them he would personally take me. Guess what, my parents said yes. I didn't win of course, but I sure was proud to represent my school, St. Louis. I will never forget what your Dad did for me Erika. This is only one or many stories about your Dad and my family (Votta). Say hello to your Mom for me and I hope to talk to you soon. A lot to catch up on.
Take care, Carol and John
Glyn Yuhas:
Dec 01, 2016 at 11:12 PM
I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family during these difficult times. This is a quote that touches a chord in me and I thought it appropriate for Mr. Butcher. THE MEASURE OF A PERSON is not - "how did they die" but - "how did they live”. Not - "what did they gain" but - "what did they give". These are the units to measure the worth of a person, as a person, regardless of birth. Mr. Butcher was a man who influenced the futures of many lives in a significant manner. I am fortunate to have been privy to that. God Bless. Glyn Yuhas
Andre Lemire:
Dec 01, 2016 at 04:12 PM
Ted was a wonderful mentor to me when I became involved in the ATA. He was a great associate in the teaching profession. My sincerest condolences to the family particularly those whom I was fortunate enough to meet -- Trudy, Erika and Eva. Our thoughts and prayers are with you Sincerely. Andre& Lenore Lemire
Jim Brohman:
Dec 01, 2016 at 02:12 PM
To the Butcher Family-with extreme sadness I send this note to express my condolences! I only new Mr. Butcher for a short time but was so touched by this wonderful man! So sorry! (I know I could have got him walking again)! Jim PT Cadiac
Ed Zukowski:
Dec 01, 2016 at 02:12 AM
My memories of Edward "Ted" Butcher are as just Marty's Dad. A kind man who was interested in your life. Never heard a harsh word come out but just a laid back cool dad who would ask how it was going when I would come on by and call on Marty for a game of tennis. Funny how I really didn't even know we had the same name, just as happy as being known as a father, a great privilege when you have such great kids, wife and extended family surrounding you. I wish the whole family peace at this time, no easy wish as it is a time of tears. Ted was a great man who left his mark. A great legacy to be proud of. Thinking of you all.
Ray West:
Nov 30, 2016 at 08:11 PM
I was deeply saddened to hear of Ted’s passing. Ted had a significant impact on my life and the lives of many others. His wisdom, kindness, and integrity made him an exceptional individual that I feel honoured and privileged to have known. My deepest condolences to all of Ted’s family.
Heather Koch:
Nov 30, 2016 at 07:11 PM
I am so sorry for the loss of your husband, father and grandfather. May the wonderful memories you have of Ted give you strength. Your hearts are broken at this time. Be gentle with yourselves and each other. You are surrounded by many friends and loved ones. Lean on them now in your time of need. My prayers are with you.
Elton and Colleen Steinley:
Nov 30, 2016 at 06:11 PM
Dear Trudy and families, We were so saddened to hear of Ted's passing. We hold on to so many good memories of both of you during the time Ted was my principal at St. Michael's. He was always a man of integrity and honesty. We'll always remember him with fondness and respect. Sincerely, Elton and Colleen Steinley
Janet, Darryl and Lucas Getz:
Nov 30, 2016 at 02:11 AM
Knowing your Dad is in the thoughts and hearts of others, I pray this will help you through this time of sorrow. Our deepest condolences from our family to yours.
Laura Hoffman:
Nov 26, 2016 at 04:11 PM
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. There are no words to describe the tremendous amount of respect I have for Mr. Butcher and will always remember my years working with him at St. Michael's School. No doubt you will have a lifetime of precious memories that will live on forever. Blessings to your family.
Pat Denis:
Nov 29, 2016 at 11:11 PM
Please pass onto Trudy and family my sincere sympathy in the loss of your husband, father and grandfather. I came to Medicine Hat in the Fall of 1966 to teach at St. Louis School of which Ted was the principal. I felt he was the best principal I ever experienced....he was very wise. One example was he didn't want to set too many rules because if they were set and broken, then there had to be consequences. Fortunately, the school was run in a very pleasant, caring and kindly manner. There was order at all times and this was much appreciated by me a new and young teacher. He also went into the Grade One classroom and from all reports thoroughly enjoyed being with the little ones. And I certainly agree with the final words written in his obituary that anyone who knew Ted would always remember him as a kind and loving man. May his soul rest in peace. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
With kind regards, Pat Denis
Carla Thompson:
Nov 29, 2016 at 11:11 PM
Rest in peace, Kind Sir... Sending condolences to you & your family, Angie. One of many warm memories from the years spent learning from your dad's teachings ~ I met Mr. Butcher on the first day of school, Gr. 1, St. Louis School. Another girl & I ended up in the principal's office for fighting over a candy that we had each found at the same time. Following a serious chat with the two scared little girls we were, he told us to apologize to each other and made us promise no more fighting... Jamie & I have been 'sisters' ever since and have often, through the decades, spoke of that moment...
Al & Diana Weinberger:
Nov 29, 2016 at 11:11 PM
We extend our sincere sympathy to you, Trudy and to your family. Al & Diana Weinberger
Gail Picotte:
Nov 29, 2016 at 10:11 PM
Dear Trudy and family, Our deepest sympathy to all of you on the loss of your husband, father and grandfather. I often think of the "Bindloss Days". Life was good way back then. With our busy hectic lives we didn't keep in touch, but you have always been close to my heart. If later on when things have quieted down and you would like us to visit you, let me know. My phone number is 403-529-0539. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love June & Gail Picotte
Diane:
Nov 29, 2016 at 09:11 PM
I'm so sorry for the sudden loss of your dad, Eva... and your grand dad, Zoe. My sincere sympathies to the whole family. Wishing you all strength and love during this very difficult time. Diane
Franca:
Nov 29, 2016 at 07:11 PM
May you be comforted by the outpouring of love surrounding you
xoxo Big Hugs
Glen Giduk:
Nov 29, 2016 at 03:11 PM
I wanted to take this opportunity to extend sincere sympathies to the family of Ted Butcher. I was fortunate and privileged to work with Ted over a span of three decades. In those days, we worked together as members of ATA Local #1. Ted was a very generous human being. He personified the importance of service to the profession and mankind. In reflecting back over those years, I think it would be fair to call Ted, - a "Renaissance Man." He was capable of completing so many diverse tasks, and projects. Equally important, Ted could always find humour in the most humourless jobs. Ted really was a servant-leader. He will be missed, but please remember that Ted will always hold special place in my memories.
Gary and Liz Haubrich:
Nov 29, 2016 at 02:11 AM
We are very sorry to hear about the passing of Ted. I was always most impressed with his concern for his fellow man. A great educator with a great family. Our condolences to all of the family.
Thinking of You:
Nov 28, 2016 at 03:11 PM
I am so sorry for your loss Erika of your Dad, I didn't know him well but saw him at lots of hockey games, My thoughts and prayers are with all the family. Take care, Dorothy
Ron & Louise King:
Nov 26, 2016 at 07:11 PM
Sorry to hear of Teds passing. We will miss him too.