1976 ~ 2023
It is with heartfelt sadness that the family of Travis Aaron Wade Ruff announce his sudden and tragic passing in Medicine Hat on Monday, March 13, 2023, at the age of 46 years. Left to cherish Travis’ memory are his father, Randy (Michelle) Ruff; grandmother, Shirley Ruff; step-sisters, Jamie (Chris) Hardy and their son, Torrin and Deidra (Brandon) Hardy; special aunt, Jo-Ann Ruff; aunt, Holly; cousins, Chase Arkossy, Marina Coslovich, Rachael (Graeme) Purches and their children, Riley Purches and Madison Purches as well as his birth mother, Brenda Ruff and brother, Tyler. He was predeceased by his grandfathers, Aaron Archie Ruff and William Smith. Travis loved his cat, Nefie and listening to music. He was a very kind and caring person who had the best sense of humour. Travis will be dearly missed by all those who knew and loved him. A private family gathering will be held. Interment will take place at Hillside Cemetery at a later date. Memorial donations in Travis’ name may be made directly to the SPCA, 55 Southwest Drive S.W., Medicine Hat, AB, T1A 8E8.
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Rachael and Graeme:
Mar 17, 2023 at 06:04 PM
We are so profoundly sorry for your immeasurable loss. I will cherish many memories of Travis and I growing up together and our competitive games of crib and name that tune. Rest in peace Travis.
Judy & Ken Carson:
Mar 17, 2023 at 06:45 PM
Our hearts are breaking for the loss of your dear Travis.
Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers always.
Love, Judy and Ken
JoAnn Ruff:
Mar 17, 2023 at 09:29 PM
My beloved nephew. I will miss you the depths of my soul. You were the son I never had and I have no words to express my pain. To my brother and family, may you find peace and joy in the memory of Travis. Remember the good times. Rest in Peace Travis
Ron & Debbie McLeod:
Mar 18, 2023 at 12:39 PM
Sending deepest Condolences to you and your families on the passing of a beloved son. Holding you in our thoughts.
Ron & Debbie McLeod
Linda Boksteyn:
Mar 18, 2023 at 08:29 PM
So sorry to hear of the loss of your son and brother. Our thoughts are with you.
Linda, Derik and Ben Boksteyn
Michelle Bien:
Mar 21, 2023 at 12:11 PM
Dear Brenda,
I am so sorry to hear of your son's passing. Our children should not pass before us, so I know your heart must be breaking. My deepest condolences to you, and all of Travis' family.
Peace be with you all.
Dwight & Pauline Brown:
Mar 22, 2023 at 05:57 PM
Randy,
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your son, Travis. We did not know him, but if he was like his father, he must have been a good person. Our hearts and prayers go out to you, Michelle, and all of the family as you struggle through these difficult times.
John and Donna:
Mar 22, 2023 at 08:04 PM
Randy / Brenda,
Our heartfelt condolences for your loss. Losing a child has to be the worst burden a parent is forced to endure. You have our deepest sympathy and unwavering support. Wishing you peace, comfort, courage, and lots of love at this time of sorrow.
Marina Coslovich:
Mar 23, 2023 at 07:52 AM
The world is a little smaller without my cousin Travis in it. We had so many heart felt laughs together and so so so many inside jokes. He is definitely the closest I had to a brother, without question. From showing me many new types of music to enjoy and opening my experiences to finer things in life, he had a heart that could never do anyone any ill will. And that is something I will strive to be more like in his memory. I can say I don’t ever remember us even having 1 fight in our whole lifetime together. His lightheartedness and easygoing nature filled every room he was in and made him my favourite person to be near. His soul was needed for a more important purpose in another life and he no longer suffers in this one. I’ll see you again cousin….and our laughter will fill the air. I love you Randy and Michelle. Find peace that his pain is gone and he is cured of his ailments and by your side whenever you need him to be.
Holly Arkossy:
Mar 31, 2023 at 09:05 PM
In Loving Memory of My Sweet nephew, Travis
I thought of you today
But that is nothing new.
I thought of you yesterday
And the days before that too.
I think of you in silence
And make no outward show.
For what it meant to lose you
Only those who love you know.
Your memory is a keepsake
From which I'll never part.
God has you in His care
And I have you in my heart.
To my brother.
There is no greater pain than the loss of a child.
No parent should have to go through.
It is beyond words the grief you are feeling, losing your son, Travis.
I wish you feelings of comfort, moments of peace and memories of joy.
I love you.
Family and friends, there is no deeper pain imaginable.
Wishing you peace, comfort and love.
Travis will forever be held closely in our hearts.