“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and
lean not on your own understanding.” Prov. 3:5.
With a heavy heart but not without hope we announce the sudden passing of Lyle Aleman at the age of 44 on June 4, 2015. He is survived by his loving wife Carisa Aleman (Bekkering) and his five precious daughters Jenna, Kelsy, Megan, Halle and Eryn. He was a dear son of Mike and Mary Aleman, brother to Kim (Paul) Thorsteinson and Leanne (Dyron) Provost, son-in-law to John and Helen Bekkering, brother-in-law to Matthew (Stephanie) Bekkering, Kathryn (Jason) Ferrie and Stephen Bekkering. He was loved by many nieces and nephews, aunts and uncles, cousins and special friends.
Lyle was born Feb. 24, 1971 in Lacombe, Alberta. The family moved to Medicine Hat in 1977. He graduated from Crescent Heights High School in 1988. He went on to study at The University of Lethbridge and earned his Bachelor of Commerce in 1993. His family was involved in the greenhouse business and he was blessed to work at RedHat Co-op as General Manager. His integrity and passion shone through in his daily work.
He married his best friend Carisa on May 15, 1999. They were truly blessed with five wonderful and treasured girls. He loved each of them dearly and encouraged them to use their individual talents to serve others and the Lord. He loved spending time with them playing badminton, shooting hoops, teaching them to fix sprinkler heads, building projects, playing games, reading stories, driving side-by-sides or just snuggling together watching a movie. We will miss his smile and laughter and hugs.
He showed his servant-heart by serving multiple terms on church council of the Medicine Hat Christian Reformed Church and as an executive board member of the Medicine Hat Christian School.
Lyle was respected and loved by so many people and we pray that God will give peace and understanding as we approach the days, months and years ahead.
The Memorial Service will be held at the First Assembly Of God, 395 - 9 Street S.E., Medicine Hat on Tuesday, June 9, 2015, at 12 Noon with Pastor George Koopmans officiating. Interment for family and close friends will take place at Hillside Cemetery prior to the service. For those attending, the procession to Hillside Cemetery will depart from Cook Southland Funeral Chapel at 10:45 a.m.
In lieu of flowers memorial donations may be sent to Rehoboth Christian Ministries (Box 1312 Coaldale AB, T1M 1N1)
Aubrey Shores - BCI:
Jun 09, 2015 at 05:06 PM
My heart goes out to Lyle's family. I had the pleasure of working with Lyle over the years. He has a great spirit, rest in peace Lyle.
John Karsten:
Jun 09, 2015 at 02:06 PM
Keeping you in our prayers
John Stevens, Cdn HydroGardens Ltd:
Jun 09, 2015 at 02:06 PM
It is with utter shock and dismay that we received the news about Lyle. Such a fine young gentleman in his prime of life taken from us precipitously leaves one at a loss for words. We knew Lyle in earlier days before his well-deserved appointment as GM at the Co-op. Without question an individual of utmost integrity, highly principled, who breathed passion and professionalism into everything he touched. His death will leave such a large void in the lives and activities of all who knew him. Our deepest sympathies to his wife and children now suffering the pain and anguish of losing their closest soul mate. We are thinking of you and wish you strength in coping with your intense loss. To the rest of Lyle's family and to his close friends, our sincere condolences. What a sad, sad day this must be for each and every one of you. To Lyle's many colleagues and acquaintances, we share your sense of loss and, like you, find ourselves asking how and why such a genuine soul in the prime of his life, is no longer a mere phone call away. It simply makes no sense. In this moment, we know only that all whose lives Lyle touched, to a person, take away fond memories. Of that we have NO doubt and for that we are thankful for the privilege of having known him.
Kees Rodenburg:
Jun 09, 2015 at 04:06 AM
My sincere condolences in the passing of Lyle. I will remember him as a good man. May he rest in peace. Kees Rodenburg Enza Zaden USA
Peter Koot:
Jun 09, 2015 at 10:06 AM
Shocked by the sudden passing of Lyle. I wish the family all the strength in this difficult time. I know Lyle since he decided to invest in a new cucumber line. It was a very nice man and good to work with him.
Tom, Marge and Samantha Manley:
Jun 09, 2015 at 01:06 PM
To Carisa and family,
Our heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Know that our prayers and thoughts are with you all during this time and in the future. Love and prayers Tom, Marge and Samantha Manley
Carmine Carpino, Walmart Canada:
Jun 09, 2015 at 01:06 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Gerard and Denise Van Schothorst:
Jun 09, 2015 at 02:06 PM
Carisa and family, our deepest sympathy and condolences with the loss of Lyle. Both Denise and I worked with Lyle in different capacities over the years and have the greatest respect for his support and integrity. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Leslie Garries:
Jun 09, 2015 at 03:06 PM
My heartfelt condolences to Lyle's families. Sincerely, Leslie Garries - AFSC
Arjan Levarht:
Jun 09, 2015 at 03:06 PM
To the family, friends and colleagues of Lyle- our sincere condolences on the passing of Lyle. He was a very respectful person. We will remember and thank him for creating a business in Holland. Our minds and thoughts are with his beloved wife, Carissa and his five wonderful daughters. Our prayers go out to them. Hoping it will give them the strength and support to deal with this tragic and painful loss.
Ken and Elaine Van Hill:
Jun 09, 2015 at 03:06 PM
Dear Carisa and family, We wish to express our deepest sympathy in the recent loss of your husband and father. You are continually in our prayers; that our Lord will continue to uphold you and sustain you in the time to come. Sincerely, Ken and Elaine Van Hill
GVN Structures:
Jun 09, 2015 at 03:06 PM
Our deepest condolences to the family. Though words cannot lessen the loss that you have suffered, please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. The community will be missing a fine role model and friend.
Nicole Heinz:
Jun 09, 2015 at 03:06 PM
I wanted to send my heartfelt condolences to Lyle's family and the family at Red Hat Co-op. I first met Lyle when I applied for a position in the Red Hat office back in 2003. He had a warm smile and made me feel at ease immediately. I was successful at acquiring the position and went on to spend the next three years working closely with Lyle in the office as an accountant. This was my first job as an accountant, and it was with Lyle's encouragement and belief in me that I continued to learn and grow at Red Hat until we moved away three years later. I went on to become a CMA, but both of the positions I have held since then I was selected for, in large part because of the work I had done at Red Hat with Lyle's guidance. I am truly grateful to Lyle for his positive attitude and open smile. When I think of him, it's his smile that I remember. I am so very, very sad thinking about all of his family and friends making their way in this world without him. I have lost touch with the Red Hat crew, but was just thinking last time I was in Medicine Hat that I should pop by and say hello. I sincerely wish that I had. My mom and dad will be attending Lyle's funeral to convey my condolences as I am unable to make the trip down to be there. Thinking of you all, Nicole Heinz (nee Wahl)
Greg and Anna Mae Brouwer:
Jun 09, 2015 at 05:06 PM
Dear Carisa and girls and family,
May you feel the communion of the saints in this time of heartache and loss. We are thinking of you and holding you up in prayer on this day and days to come.
Greg and Anna Mae Brouwer and Family
Mike Dooley:
Jun 09, 2015 at 02:06 AM
I am shocked and saddened to hear of Lyle's passing. Even though we were only business associates, Lyle always made me feel comfortable like a close friend. I will miss his calm straightforwardness and easy style. My heart goes out to his family and I pray for peace for them and Lyle.
Harry & Arlene Prummel:
Jun 09, 2015 at 07:06 PM
Our deepest sympathy with your loss. May God continue to comfort you. Our thoughts & prayers are with you.
Jackie and Brendan Postman:
Jun 09, 2015 at 08:06 PM
You and your girls are in our prayers. We will be thinking of you.
Jennifer DeBourke:
Jun 09, 2015 at 09:06 PM
I am beyond saddened to hear the news of the passing of Lyle. My deepest condolences to his wife, daughters and his family at this time. Lyle was a wonderful person and he will never be forgotten. Thinking and praying for you all.
Conrad & Lisa Schalk & Family:
Jun 09, 2015 at 11:06 PM
Dear Carisa & Family: our deepest condolences to you, your children and extended family in the loss of Lyle. May the Lord grant you comfort and peace. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always. With love from our family.
Harco and Denise Slagter:
Jun 10, 2015 at 02:06 AM
Dear Carisa, to your beautiful daughters, and to the Aleman and Bekkering families: There are no words to express how shocked and saddened we were to hear about Lyle. Praying The Lord will surround you in His loving arms, comfort and strengthen you, and give you all that you stand in need of in the days and weeks ahead. We're holding you close in our hearts and prayers. "And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying. There shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away.” - Rev 21:4
Ontario Greenhouse Vegetable Growers:
Jun 10, 2015 at 02:06 PM
The Aleman Family, You've lost someone who was a special part of your family. May you all find comfort in each other and in all the concern that comes to you today. On behalf of the Ontario Greenhouse Vegetable Growers Board, and Staff.
Annemarie Neudorf (Blankenstyn):
Jun 10, 2015 at 09:06 PM
I was so sorry to hear about Lyle's passing. I know there are not words to express the loss you are all feeling. I pray for God's peace to be close to your hearts as you keep living day after day, depending on His power and strength.
Henk ten Wolde:
Jun 10, 2015 at 10:06 PM
Dear Family and Friends,
I was shocked to hear about the passing of Lyle. The first time I met Lyle was in 2009 at the Red Hat Co-op during a visit. Since then I met him a couple of times and he had a sincere approach in doing business. I respected him a lot. I wish all of you the strength to cope with the loss of Lyle.
Henk ten Wolde Former Trade Commissioner of the Netherlands in Alberta
Arie and Dienie Schalk:
Jun 11, 2015 at 01:06 AM
"When someone we love so dearly goes home to be the Lord, we know they're in a better place -- but our sorrow and pain still so great."
We were so sorry to hear about the sudden loss of your dear husband and father, son and brother. Praying the Lord will hold you especially close and comfort you through the coming days, and that you'll be strengthened by the love of family and friends.
"Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted." ~ Matthew 5:4 ~
With heartfelt sympathy and prayers,
Arie & Dienie Schalk, Calgary
Percy Demman:
Jun 11, 2015 at 10:06 PM
We here at Crowsnest Lake Bible Camp would like to extend our sincere condolences at this time. Lyle was a very generous man toward our ministry here, and he will be dearly missed. God bless you and keep you at this hard time.
Harvey and Tina Aasman:
Jun 12, 2015 at 01:06 AM
Dear Carisa and family,
Our hearts go out to you at such a difficult time. Lyle was a wonderful person and Harvey will always cherish his friendship. I hope you and the girls can take some comfort in knowing he was well loved and respected and that he is rejoicing with Jesus. Our prayers are with you guys. Take care of each other and trust in God to give you the strength you need right now. All our love, Harvey and Tina
Jim and Helen Van Dam:
Jun 15, 2015 at 09:06 PM
Dear Carisa, Mike and Mary and your families, We are sorry of to hear of Lyle's passing and bring you our condolences. Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this difficult time. We have not been in touch with your family for a number of years as we now live in Kelowna, but we have known and visited since Lyle was a little baby in Lacombe. May God comfort you and bless you and give you peace. With love....Jim and Helen Van Dam
Thinking of You:
Jul 19, 2015 at 10:07 PM
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Words cant make it better. Lyle will always be around and show you his love in ways...
Jane Snieder:
Jun 08, 2015 at 03:06 AM
Our sincerest condolences in the passing away of Lyle . May Our Heavenly Father grant you all his comfort and strength.
Jackie:
Jun 06, 2015 at 07:06 PM
Sending my thoughts and prayers
Connie Phillips:
Jun 06, 2015 at 08:06 PM
Please accept my condolences on the passing of your husband, son and father. It was an honor to have known Lyle a and to have worked with him over the years. He was a great man and visionary and will be terribly missed. May God and the love or your family embrace you in comfort during this difficult time. With deepest sympathy, Connie Phillips
Richard and Annette Liewuen:
Jun 06, 2015 at 09:06 PM
Dear Aleman and Bekkering Families, We extend our heart felt condolences to you all at this difficult time. You have been in our hearts and in our prayers as you journey through these difficult days. We pray that you will experience God's grace even though there are more questions than answers.
Richard and Annette Lieuwen
Andy & Sharon Houweling:
Jun 07, 2015 at 12:06 AM
May God comfort and be your strength during this time of deep sadness. We will cotinue to uphold you all in our thoughts and prayers. Cast your cares on the Lord and He will sustain you. Psalm 55:22 With love and sympathy, Andy & Sharon Houweling & Family
Jim and Janet Calpas:
Jun 07, 2015 at 02:06 AM
Our deepest condolences on the loss of Lyle. I first met Lyle when I was the greenhouse specialist for the Ministry of Agriculture located in Brooks and was working to support the growers of the Red Hat Cooperative. I have always been impressed with Lyle's dedication to his work to advance and grow the business of the Red Hat Coop. He was easy to like, clearly a dedicated family man and will be sorely missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Adina Warring:
Jun 07, 2015 at 03:06 AM
My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I had the pleasure of working with Lyle over the years and he will be dearly missed.
Casey Prins:
Jun 07, 2015 at 03:06 AM
My condolences to the family with the sudden passing away of Lyle. May the Lord give you strength, guidance and courage in this very difficult time. Casey Prins
John & Teena Vant Land:
Jun 07, 2015 at 04:06 AM
Dear Carisa: words cannot express the sorrow/shock we feel in the sudden passing of Lyle. What a comfort to know that God is with you and your girls every moment. We trust He will give you strength for the days and years to come. Praying for you and sending you our love. John & Teena Vant Land
Tom and Sandy Tolsma:
Jun 07, 2015 at 04:06 AM
To Carisa and family Words cannot express the sorrow we feel for you at this time. We pray that God will give you strength, courage and peace in the coming days.
Paul & Hilda de Jonge:
Jun 07, 2015 at 02:06 PM
Dear Family Aleman, It came as a great shock to hear the passing of Lyle. We have known him since we joined Red Hat Co-op in 2000. Lyle never had an unkind word that I can remember, always caring about his duties at the Co-op. We pray that you may receive strength in this time of mourning from the Lord. Only by Him can we find what we need for this time and eternity. We wish you strength and the Lords blessings. Sincerely, De Jonge Family Lethbridge, Alberta, Broxburn Vegetables
Sasha Craven (Zabolotney):
Jun 07, 2015 at 02:06 PM
Carisa and girls, Mary and Mike, Kim and family, Leanne and family, My heart truly breaks for you! I know God is beside you, in front of you and holding you right now. He has not forsaken you. Lyle was an amazing person and child of God that everyone who met him, felt his faith and his sense of humour. Know that we are praying for you and are thinking of you guys! May God bless you and keep you, may God make his face shine upon you and be gracious to you. May he lift you up and give you peace. With much LOVE, Sasha, Mark, Eleandra, and Blake
Bert & Agnes Brouwer:
Jun 07, 2015 at 09:06 PM
We would like to extend our condolences to you and all your family And pray that the Lord will Bless and comfort you in this time of sorrow. We will keep you in our prayers
Jefff and Sandra Batchelor:
Jun 08, 2015 at 01:06 AM
Carisa, Jenna, Kelsy, Megan, Halle and Eryn - our deepest sorrow and sympathy. Please know we are thinking of you and praying that the Lord will give you strength during this very difficult time. All of our love!
Sid and Grace Holtrop:
Jun 06, 2015 at 12:06 AM
Carisa and family, We cannot adequately express the sorrow we feel for you and your family in this sudden passing of your dear husband and the loved father of your children. We do not understand God's ways, but we trust that the God of all comfort will surround you and your loved ones with His unfailing love at this very difficult time. We mourn with you. Love, Sid and Grace Holtrop
Cindy Swanson:
Jun 08, 2015 at 09:06 AM
I'm so very sorry to hear about Lyle! It has been such a great blessing to get to know you and your wonderful daughters through the MHCS. You're a lovely family! Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Les Van Egmond:
Jun 08, 2015 at 12:06 PM
Our deepest condolences in the sudden passing of your husband, son and father. You are in our hearts and prayers as you navigate these difficult times. It was a pleasure to have known Lyle and it is our prayer that God will give you all the strength you need. Les Van Egmond - Westbrook Greenhouse Systems
Nick Karam:
Jun 08, 2015 at 12:06 PM
Our deepest sympathy for your loss and may God rest his soul in peace.
Jeanette Kazakawich (Brouwer):
Jun 08, 2015 at 01:06 PM
John 14:27 says, "Peace I leave with you, my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives..." My prayer is that you will be blessed with the Peace that only God can give. Many prayers are with you all at this most difficult time. Hang on to the hope that we have in Christ. Much Christian love to you.
Maureen Turner:
Jun 08, 2015 at 02:06 PM
Carissa and family, my thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
John Zhang:
Jun 08, 2015 at 02:06 PM
It is sad getting the message of the sudden passing of Lyle Aleman. Lyle has been a good friend of mine and Brooks greenhouse team. Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Willard de Wilde:
Jun 08, 2015 at 04:06 PM
Dear Aleman and Bekkering families.
We were shocked to here of Lyle's sudden passing. We wish you God's strength in the days to come. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dave Wilding:
Jun 08, 2015 at 04:06 PM
Dear Aleman family,
I have had the pleasure many times of having lunch or meeting Lyle at shows throughout North America. He always had a smile every time I met him, no matter the circumstance. He will truly be missed by many. While it is very sad and tough to deal with right now, there is always plan with our Lord and you can take comfort knowing that you will see him again.
"But our citizenship is in heaven, and from it we await a Savior, the Lord Jesus Christ"
Philippians 3:20
April Lyzenga (Vanderflier):
Jun 08, 2015 at 05:06 PM
Carissa and family,
Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. Our deepest condolences to all of you.
Jennifer England - Macro Plastics, Inc:
Jun 08, 2015 at 06:06 PM
Please accept our condolences on the passing of Lyle. It was an honor to have known and worked with such a great person and we will truly miss him. May God embrace you in comfort during this difficult time.
Erika Elves:
Jun 08, 2015 at 07:06 PM
I'm so sad to hear of your loss. It's unimaginable. Take as much time as you need to grieve and to heal. Anger and confusion and sorrow are okay. God is with you, even when you can't feel His presence. You are in my prayers, and in the prayers of many others.
JF Delorme:
Jun 08, 2015 at 07:06 PM
We have had the wonderful pleasure of knowing and working with Lyle for many years now. He was a dedicated businessman who worked hard for his customers and his workers, his goal was promoting healthier eating for the people of Western Canada. We were saddened by this terrible news and immediately thought of his wonderful family, who although we never had the chance to meet, knew of them through Lyle's fond stories of how the girls were growing up fast. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family.
Bob and Pat Bandstra:
Jun 09, 2015 at 01:06 AM
Our heart felt condolences